Camping and friendship

Three families’ stories

Tony Gorman

Camping helps me and my wife Diane in many ways. Even a short break gives us a much-needed reset: the fresh air, the escape from routine, and the simplicity of it all can be so refreshing. Plus, it’s a great way to bond with family, away from distractions. Spending time just with nature, we try to have a technology-free time (only phones for emergencies and a radio) and we enjoy playing board games and cards.

Some of our friends from schooldays and previous work colleagues who we’ve known for many years who now live in other parts of the country also go caravanning and we meet up with them once a year. My camping friends and I all enjoy camping and caravanning and the great outdoors. The friendliness of Northants DA, which we are both involved with, also helped us to forge great friendships and means there is always a support network in place if you need help.

I am still in touch with the friends I’ve met through camping. We mainly stay in touch through social media, but we keep messaging short so when we get together we always have plenty to talk about. We treasure the time we have with our friends while camping – even if it’s only once a year.

For me, the best thing about camping is the unrestricted freedom to do what you like, as and when you like. Camping is an opportunity to get away from it all, depressurise and embrace simplicity again, without all the distractions of normal daily life.

My wife Pam and I joined the Club when our family were very young - it was important that we could rely on the standard of the facilities on Club Sites and the honest site descriptions in the Club’s SiteSeeker campsite guide.

Pam Cunnington

We owned a caravan and were Club members for around 12 years from 1987, whilst our three children were growing up. This allowed us to have affordable and active holidays in great locations, as a family and with other families. After a short break, we rejoined the Club in 2009 and rekindled our love of caravanning.

Camping allowed us to meet up with friends and their families, such as Tony and Diane. I first knew Diane at school in London and when our families moved further apart, camping meant we could still meet up. There were around three other families we used to meet up with as well. We all lived a distance apart but would regularly meet up over bank holiday long weekends. As we all had camping in common, it gave real value to these friendships for the adults and children alike.

We are still in touch with all these friends, and we still own a caravan in our retirement years so we regularly tour the UK, staying close to friends and family, where we can invite them to us and visit them. Camping holidays have given us many shared happy memories and gave our children increased confidence while growing up, teaching them many skills and encouraging them to socialise widely while on site.

In addition to the benefits to our children, we find as we slowly get older, camping keeps us active and helps us to retain life learnt skills such as towing and setting up camp. Now our three children are grown up, we still go camping with them and our grandchildren, the trips all organised on a family group chat which we’ve named 'Explorers'. We’ve enjoyed many memorable trips, recently spending time in the Lake District, at the beautiful Braithwaite Site. The grandchildren particularly enjoyed Chertsey — lovely site and a great location for Chessington!

Paul and Sara Hemsley

We’ve both camped since we were young children and have made lots of friends through the Club’s Youth Section in that time. We are now youth leaders and testers and enjoy being able to contribute to other children’s experiences as young campers, including our own three sons. 

Paul and I both met through the Club and although our lives took different directions, we continued to stay in touch and camp together. We married seven years ago and now live with our three sons as a blended family. One couple who we met through Club Youth when we were teens now form part of our close friendship circle. The couple, Darren and Maxine, are now also youth leaders and also met through the youth section. While we knew them back then, we were in different age groups but when we got involved in youth leading 10 years ago, it was great to see them both again and now we regularly camp together.

We’re still in touch with most of the people we’ve met through camping and now with social media, it’s easier to keep in touch. For those who still camp, we often meet up on a field (very often unplanned as we attend meets and rallies) and often have a chat and a drink together. Meeting up can be anything from a couple of times a month to six months or more, but it’s still like we’ve never been apart when we do catch up.

Speaking on behalf of myself and my family, the best thing about camping is being with like-minded people, enjoying the outdoors and forging friendships based on a shared love of all of this. What’s funny is that we’ve rarely been to a camping friend’s house - most we don’t even know where they live!

Paul and I met in Club Youth so our family wouldn’t exist as it is without camping. The most important thing camping has brought to me is a great friendship first of all, which has led to a wonderful marriage later on!  

Pictured: Paul and Sara in 1984

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